Friday, May 23, 2008

Ways to kill depression!!

Well we all feel depressed somewhere at somepoint in life it could be anything relationships ,fear,sadness,loss.... modes of depressions are count less u name it and it starts ..

But what we should actually do when any one feels depressed i mean its easier to say that go out talk to frnds and listen music and watch some movies but these are things which u do when u feel like ... not when you are depressed coz in real when depression hits someone he or she cannt handle that scenario normaly thats why we called it depression .
But i guess i can suggest few things coz i had quite an experience regarding it .
well first of all if somebody come across with any such kind of situation where there is no way out then if you are spirtual and even if you are not try to become like that coz ,its not ur body which needs peace at that time its your mind your heart you have to make things clear and understandable to yourr self so be spirtual do any thing which relates with your religon jus tell your self that you have connection with God that connection might not be visible but its the strongest one if you are muslim then jus offer prayers even u hav neva did that in your past but jus to make ur self calm give it a try don’t feel hesitate don’t think that what God says that u neva bothered to remember him and when it comes ,the hard time u started actually lookin for him No, because God loves your more than you can imagine he always waits for your call ,Call of peace Call for happiness .And when you passed that formal and first stage of hastiness and utmost depression ,then start thinking about ways which for the time can divert your mind .,if you are a person like me who donnt have much frnds then jus start talking to your self but keep that in mind rather talking negatively about your self think positive neva blame your self for anything for any mistake but jus promise your self you wont repeat it again jus give your self one chance one positive motivation and lastly don’t lose hope .
Believe on God then believe on your self in the end everything will be fine :)

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Exams Fever!!




“God when they are far we never care and when there are only few days left we actually started thinking about them “
Why this happens to me always ? Is it me only or there are other people like that ? I don’t think so any body could be more care free when it comes for exams and not just hourly or terminal exams but Final exams ?? May be that’s because I am too lazy or careless at least that’s what my teachers in school complaint with my parents in annual parents teachers meeting ,but I don’t think so that’s the only reason I mean that is the biggest but there are other reasons as well,
First of all I am not happy with this examination procedure I mean why do I have to proof teachers that I have learn so many things, teacher should be capable of judging this throughout the sessions that which student has what potential .if they cannot what’s the use of making them a teacher or an instructor.
Second thing I do not have any problem in quizzes or assignments or any surprise test where we don’t have to study for hours and take that never ending dilemma of tension, but those tests are really mind boggling and can be refreshing at least when u gain good grade in something where your intelligence and presence of mind is being tested rather the quantity of words, you remember in certain period of time.
Third thing if you have good “PR “ with capital p and capital r with your teacher there is no need to give any exams just write your name in the answer sheet ,write a personal not in the copy’s main page and believe me you’ll pass without giving any hectic three hours long exam.
And the last thing although whatever things I have against exams in my mind before one day of my final exams I have to study because my all above mentioned reasons or argues failed when it comes to me  sadly .And that’s where I suffer !

Sunday, May 11, 2008

The most beautiful person on this earth


MY MOTHER”tribute to my mother on mothers day”

Being a first child of my mother, I personally feel great attachment to her I guess my siblings feel the same and every child on earth feels the same way … because this relation which we term as a mother has its own undefined persona the more you try to define her the more you feel a need to be defined her again and again , So does I we all feel that our mothers are the bestest of all and she is one of the top mothers in world but the reality is they all are same for their children .

It’s such a strange fact that a mother can share her love equally to his all children ,which an ordinary person cannot like a fathers love can be variable like my father he loves more to my brother than me but my mother I always see the same shine in her eyes for all of us how she does that ? Totally mystical.

Another fact although I love my mother a lot but I always feel it’s nothing in front of my mother’s love I feel unsatisfied because somewhere in my sub conscious I want to love her back as she loves me I want to balance the amount of love we share but I always failed , I really don’t know how to praise her how to let her know that mom I love you the same way you loved me or may be i can never reach that point ,but still I just wanted to thank God that he gave me this blessing without which I m always incomplete .

Long live my mother …And God bless her !